7/31/2023 0 Comments Four of cups presentIn a reading for a single person looking for love, the 4 of Cups could indicate that they don’t feel good about themselves and have misplaced their natural mojo or that they have unrealistic expectations about love, possibly inspired by some Hollywood ideal. As you learn to tolerate each other’s differences, you will slowly and gradually become stronger as a couple. Really make an effort to understand the perspective of the other person. Try to relax and be receptive to the love that is there. This is a time to learn the virtues of empathy, understanding and patience in the relationship. Or you could be coming down from the initial high of falling in love and find that the other person looks quite different to how you imagined without those rose-tinted spectacles on. You could be expecting your partner to be your source of happiness and feel disappointed when that doesn’t happen. The 4 of Cups indicates dissatisfaction and boredom in your love life. Gemstones: Selenite, moonstone, desert roseĮssential oils: Jasmine, ylang-ylang The 4 of Cups in Love and Relationships Amen and so it is! CorrespondencesĪrchangel: Gabriel, ruler of the Element of Water and of The Moon Thank you for opening my heart to new beginnings and opportunities. ” 4 of Cups Prayerĭear Mother-Father God, help me recognise what has made me lose my spark so that I can purge and get back up. “We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars.”Īffirmation: “I allow myself to wallow for a little while to purge my emotional energy body. Are you ready to let go of the past? Are you ready to raise your gaze…? It is your ego that looks to the past to inform the future Your Higher Self is always centred in the NOW and poised to leap at the next opportunity. But today is called the ‘present’ for a reason, cliché as it sounds. Allow yourself a set time to wallow and let those tears flow freely. If there is a need to release emotions through crying or screaming first, so be it. ![]() The trick is to practise mindfulness like Piglet and Pooh in the first quote above. This puts us in a state of avoidance in the face of important future choices and could easily see us miss important opportunities. That, in turn, can make us regress further back into our past, to a time when we had no responsibility resting on our shoulders. Sometimes when we have experienced emotional trauma, we resist learning from it. This is not always a bad thing but it does get bad when it keeps us stuck in the past. With the corresponding Moon in Cancer comes a strong sentimental streak and a propensity to become tearful. The branches on the tree are still pointing upward meaning the Cups are safely held for the moment, and there is hope of recovery if that is what is wanted.“A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.” The tree has lost all of its leaves, you can still see them floating on the water – meaning that this issue has been caught early enough to do something about it. Notes on the image: The image shows a struggling tree in stormy water, indicating problems. If there’s hidden potential then great, but if not, the Subject has learned about what they don’t want from a relationship. The Subject needs to dig a little deeper, to see what lies beneath the surface. ![]() To take action, or make a real judgement, based on what they’re thinking would probably not be the right thing to do just now. With this card there is a sense that not everything is known. ![]() It seems unlikely that the Subject really has lost all hope, or else the Eight of Cups would have appeared. The Subject’s attitude is affecting their behaviour towards the other person and this is just going to generate more issues and insecurities. Either they are unsure about its sincerity and depth, or they’re just less interested in the other person than they were before. ![]() In-depth meaning: The Subject has become disillusioned within a relationship. Try to understand what you are feeling and why you are feeling it, so you can start to address your needs. The Four of Cups shows your attitude and mind-set aren’t helping. Short meaning: You’re bored to the point of being apathetic about a particular situation or relationship.
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